Sunday, August 2, 2009

Speech about friendship

Speech about friendship


If not ask me what is the friendship I know, but on the contrary, if you ask me what I no longer know. The same seemed to happen to St.Augustine of Hippo in time centuries ago. Along with friendship, and while there are a multitude of phenomena which fall into the same problem of definition. This happens because they are abstractions that are strongly rooted in the man making it almost impossible to surprise them to analyze as if they were material things. Many do not repair in this situation need not believe it but when the need to define this emerging phenomenon is known to address issues raised by this problematic subject of estudio.Esta not only introduced me to my course, but he had already been presented, for example, Socrates makes a negligible amount of centuries ago. This demonstrates the problems raised by addressing such issues, because with the passage of time has not been a holistic response to this, only conjecture about the issue but nothing quite convincing. And I'm afraid that I do not escaparé to huge list of mediocre guesswork to the topic, but at least try to form a complete idea of this phenomenon from my experience and from a logical reasoning, if the logic is in this field, which I doubt much. Anyway it should be noted that it would be hypocritical to try to give an objective definition of a subjective phenomenon par excellence is friendship, which can be defined as diverse as many people there. This is because all people have different conceptions of friendship which is a product of their experiences, the point is that people who can say that it does not exist. But if there is something we all share and that nobody can deny that we all relations between us, because man is man is so immersed in society it would die. Hence the need to interact with other peers makes creating bonds of different characteristics but are founded on trust. The same may be greater or lesser extent but with the depth that determines the relations between men will be developed, showing affinity to the degree that one can have with some people and others.

Also factors such as shortage of equality or similarity between individuals determine the degree of affinity that a person can save the other. In fact, it is common to see different personalities tend to be more akin to similar personalities. Perhaps this is because when you relate to other people look at what they do not have one, and we encounter someone who is a very different view and allows us to compare features in order to draw conclusions that allow us to improve aspects that we believe few developed in us. At the same time compared with others allows us to have a parameter with which medirnos to know how we are. In turn, this leads to healthy comparison the stereotyping of people who in some cases become image to imitate.

But this is more about relations between people themselves in terms of friendship, which was founded in those relations being in a sympathy that keeps the characteristics of another, to be more sympathetic than one feel for the rest of the people.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

a great piece of writing mate! a warm greeting from Indonesia :)